Expected behaviour....
- Be aware that courtesy is
extremely important in our community. Respect other people's
boundaries, protocols and personal space. Do not touch other people or
their belongings without permission
- This
is not a dating club. No one is obliged to match you with a partner.
Most people will want to meet you several times and be around you for a
while before considering a private meeting, much less letting you tie
them.
- Just because someone is submissive doesn't mean they're submissive to you.
- Please don't bring or display toys or scene items (including handcuffs,
whips, floggers, paddles, etc. )
- Lower your voice when describing scenes or parties.
- Please do not arrive dressed in obvious fetishwear. (A collar is fine but If it has a leash hanging off of it, it's not.)
- Often the munch takes over the space right next to the ladies toilets, please do bear in mind that this is the main ladies toilets for the whole pub so you will often have non munch people cutting through the crowds to use them!
- if
you bring or invite a friend to the munch, be sure to make them aware
of the guidelines and insure that they agree to abide by them before
they attend.
What goes on on tour, stays on tour!
Quite simply if you were to run into someone back in normal vanilla land, asda or at a restaurant with their family. Do bear in mind that not everyone is out about their lifestyle to their family/friends. If you don't know them well enough too know this nod a friendly hello and move on. Likewise if you witness someone doing/playing a scene at a club, if you were priveledged enough to be there, this doesn't mean that you can then describe to everyone one that wasn't. The key word here is discretion!
